A positive thinker achieves more success in life than a negative thinker. This is especially true with weight loss and fitness. Most people aren't aware of how much their thinking affects their feelings and behavior. It's easy, however, to learn what thoughts are getting in the way of intentions to lose weight - they're "negative thoughts".
Negative thoughts are typically ones that are critical and illogical. For someone to say that she can't do anything right just because she ate more than she planned is an example of a thought that is illogical. Where is the logic that just because of one event the person can't do anything right? This type of all-or-nothing and punishing thinking only causes a person to make more mistakes, not less.
So it's wise to become closely acquainted with thought patterns and statements frequently used in response to behaviors and events. The more relaxed and motivated a person feels the easier it is to follow through with what needs to be done to achieve a healthy weight. It's positive thoughts, not negative thoughts, that lead to motivation.
How to Become Aware of Negative Thoughts That Interfere with Weight Loss
- Make a decision to listen to the things that you say to yourself.
- When feeling a negative emotion such as guilt, anger, or anxiety ask yourself, "What did I just say to myself about this situation?" Most likely you said something negative to yourself that led to that negative feeling. For example, you might be feeling badly after having overeaten. The thoughts preceding this feeling might have been something like, "I can't believe you failed again. You can't do anything right. I just know I'll probably gain weight from this." It's easy to see how this type of thinking can lead to negative feelings of frustration, guilt, and a lower self-esteem.
- Point out to yourself how the thoughts, not the situation, have lead to the feelings and ask yourself, "Is thinking like this going to help or hurt me in my attempts to lose weight?" It's logical that this negative way of thinking can hurt goals to lose weight.
- Now think about what thoughts would be more helpful considering the situation. The thoughts might sound something like this, "I overate but it's not the end of the world. Let me look at what might have caused my overeating so that I can prevent it next time. It looks like I went too long without eating anything and I was too hungry. That lead to the overeating. Let me learn from my mistake and continue on. No one does this perfectly. I want to focus more on what I've done well instead of what hasn't gone well."
- Use a journal to write down negative thoughts in order to become more aware of them and then immediately write down the more positive and rational thoughts. Writing down thoughts initially keeps the brain from being distracted so that we can learn more quickly. By being consistent with working on thoughts people can change their normal thinking patterns to ones that will help at losing weight.
Thoughts That Get in the Way of Losing Weight
Here are some typical thoughts that can get in the way of losing weight:
- "I messed up again. What's the use! I might as well forget the whole thing."
- "I can't believe I ate that. I can never do anything right!"
- "I ate too much. I might as well finish the whole thing."
- "I can't believe I didn't lose weight this week. I'm never going to lose it."
Losing weight isn't just about eating less. It's also about thinking the right way.
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